Impact of parent-child attachment on children′s emotional development: Challenges and strategies in the digital era

doi:10.11852/zgetbjzz2025-0662

Abstract

Abstract: Parent-child attachment serves as the cornerstone of children′s emotional development.Parent-child attachment encompasses secure, avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized types.Both attachment styles and age exert influences on children′s emotional growth, affective understanding, and regulation.In the digital era, phenomena such as "technoference", "excessive screen exposure" , and "behavioral modeling-enhanced control" pose significant threats to the formation of secure parent-child attachment, thereby impacting children′s emotional development.This paper proposes the STEP strategy, which includes Selecting appropriate digital content, engaging Together in digital product usage, Engineering well-designed timing and contexts for digital use, and Promoting parents′ interactive competencies scientifically.This framework aims to facilitate the scientific transition of parent-child attachment into the digital age and foster healthy emotional development in children.

Key words: parent-child attachment, emotional development, digital era, technological interference, screen exposure

摘要： 亲子依恋是儿童情绪情感发展的基石。亲子依恋包括安全型、回避型、矛盾型和紊乱型。依恋类型和年龄对儿童情感发展、情绪理解和调节等存在影响。数字化时代的“技术干扰”、“屏幕暴露时间过长”、“行为建模增强的控制”等现象严重威胁安全型亲子依恋的形成,进而影响儿童情绪情感的发展。本文提出了包括恰当选择数字产品内容(Select)、一起参与数字产品使用(Together)、精心设计数字产品使用时间与情境(Engineer)、科学提升父母亲子互动能力(Promote)在内的STEP策略,助力亲子依恋科学步入数字时代,促进良好的儿童情绪情感的形成。

关键词: 亲子依恋, 情绪情感发展, 数字化时代, 技术干扰, 屏幕暴露

CLC Number:

R179

LIU Qiaoyun. Impact of parent-child attachment on children′s emotional development: Challenges and strategies in the digital era[J]. Chinese Journal of Child Health Care, 2025, 33(7): 697-701.

刘巧云. 亲子依恋对儿童情绪情感发展的影响及数字化时代面临的挑战与对策[J]. 中国儿童保健杂志, 2025, 33(7): 697-701.

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